Really, where is the fine line between giving constructive criticism and destructive criticism?
Does it lie on the criticizer's words and mentality or does it lie on the receiver's heart and perception?
This is something very important for all of us to learn. To learn to receive and give criticism without hard feelings. Of course, it is very hard to achieve since everyone loves praises more than criticisms anyways! But, too much of praises will be like Paula Abdul, noone takes her seriously like Simon Cowell. Yet again, too much dosage of criticism would make the relationship and the receiver sour and demotivated. This is also the easiest way to bring down an organization and teamwork. Then again, criticism is also crucial for improvement, or should I use a better word? Oh wells, a german told me before. When they criticize, they criticize on the matter at hand and not personal attack which Asians always perceive. And Muns told me last week to give a hamburger criticism. Always delicious and easy to digest!
Time to lean how to eat that hamburger and make my hamburgers as delicious as possible!
Does it lie on the criticizer's words and mentality or does it lie on the receiver's heart and perception?
This is something very important for all of us to learn. To learn to receive and give criticism without hard feelings. Of course, it is very hard to achieve since everyone loves praises more than criticisms anyways! But, too much of praises will be like Paula Abdul, noone takes her seriously like Simon Cowell. Yet again, too much dosage of criticism would make the relationship and the receiver sour and demotivated. This is also the easiest way to bring down an organization and teamwork. Then again, criticism is also crucial for improvement, or should I use a better word? Oh wells, a german told me before. When they criticize, they criticize on the matter at hand and not personal attack which Asians always perceive. And Muns told me last week to give a hamburger criticism. Always delicious and easy to digest!
Time to lean how to eat that hamburger and make my hamburgers as delicious as possible!
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